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PRAISE FOR
THE LOWERCASE JEW

The Jew in the poet
Review in the Jerusalem Post by P. David Hornik

In this book Rodger Kamenetz, the American Jewish poet best known for The Jew in the Lotus - an account of Jewish- Buddhist dialogue - draws on his wide range of Jewish knowledge and feelings to produce a set of poems that are always interesting ...and sometimes stunningly powerful.

The book is divided into four sections, of which the first two, "Grandfather Clause" and "Torah," are the most compelling. The poems in "Grandfather Clause" are about the legacy of anti-Semitism, a sensitive but also much-trodden subject that Kamenetz handles with tact and originality. The deeply serious My Holocaust, a five-pages-long meditation about having a vicarious, hence inherently problematic relation to the catastrophe, is strikingly honest and convincing. In a lighter vein is The Lowercase Jew, in which T. S. Eliot stands trial for the nasty anti- Semitism that mars his verse. Eliot's main accuser is his own anti-Semitic creation Bleistein, whom Kamenetz colorfully and comically projects as a gruff, earthy Chicagoan Jew who assures Eliot that


It's punishment for you, but also me.

I have to read these farkakta lines

you wrote about the Jews.

Later Bleistein grouses:

London and Jerusalem,

you called them unreal cities.

Maybe what made those cities unreal

was you never saw the people in them.

The lines maintain the standup-comic tone while making a serious point about the coldness of this patrician poet. Nothing in The Lowercase Jew is meant to detract from Eliot's greatness, but Bleistein's indignant ramblings cleverly capture his shortcomings.

The second section, "Torah," offers poems that are intensive, midrashic interactions with biblical texts...Genesis 1: 1 well evokes, in 16 lines, the impenetrable mystery of that verse; The Broken Tablets poignantly imagines the fate of Moses' first pair of tablets, their shards carried in the Ark all the way to the Promised Land. But the highlights of the section are Noah's Grapes, a bitterly powerful statement on aging and sexual decline; and the extraordinary Naming the Angel, which memorably interprets Jacob's night-long wrestle with the angel in terms of solitude and alienation. After his protracted, frustrating encounter with the mysterious being, Jacob wonders in anguish:


Maybe nothing moves down

the ladder but what we ask for, if in greed,

then greed, if in anger, then horned anger

gores our nights. Nothing walks down the ladder

but what we dream on the hard rock.

These lines well exemplify Kamenetz's genius for rendering voices and mental states, his psychological insight and constant search for meaning.

Kamenetz is also a laudably courageous poet, not shrinking from themes like the Holocaust and quintessential biblical texts, and the poem Proverbs (also in the "Torah" section) is actually a set of 34 original proverbs, none of them longer than one line, that are endlessly rich and provocative. My own favorites are "Hope burns the hopeless" and "It was dark, so he closed his eyes," but this is a prismatic group of maxims that send up different parts of myself every time I stare at them.


The third section, "In the House of Mourning," starts with two poems about a lost love, 13 and Sparrow Land, that are not quite realized, seeming to shy away from the painful subject matter without quite conveying the point. The central issue of this section is Uncle Louis, or Why My Father Moved from Baltimore to Florida, a three-pages-long confrontation with personal pain that at its best achieves heights of vivid language and intensity...
In the last section, "Blessings After the Meal," Kamenetz shows a different kind of courage, narrowing his focus to the culinary while still aiming at big meanings. It works best in Rye, which manages to locate virtues of equanimity and endurance in the taste, texture, and contents of a slice of Jewish rye: for there is wisdom in a crust that holds the whole within its ellipse, that restrains the moister whiteness like the mud shore of a lake in the sun.

...at his best Kamenetz is a master at infusing seemingly plain words with resonance and depth, with subtle textures and playful ironies, and he is wonderfully open to a whole gamut of human emotions, from the sublime to the soiled and abject. Versed in Jewish texts and alive to Jewish issues, Kamenetz's message is one of quiet affirmation of his identity, of appreciation for Jewish perseverance.

On the whole this is a very worthwhile book of verse - thoughtful, fresh, and engaging.

 

"The poem on Ginsberg and Pound is magnificent; the poem on T.S.E. is worth the price of admission; and "Uncle Louis;" and "Rye;" and "Tours of Heaven." Read." -- Gerald Stern

"Rodger Kamenetz's poems whirl and shake on the page." -- Louise Erdrich

"They are "a secret and almost intimate meeting place of English and Hebrew." -- Yehudah Amichai

"The Lowercase Jew is a book dense with mourning, comedy routines, food, blue tattoos. tribal history and the wheel of time, despair and prayer. It begins with three amazing poems on T.S. Eliot's anti-Semitism, Allen Ginsberg's forgiveness of Ezra Pound and an imaginary Holocaust Theme Park and ends with an amazing poem on happiness, riffing on the Bible's first psalm." --Alicia Ostriker

"Rodger Kamenetz is on a spiritual pilgrimage that feels both urgent and timeless. After finding the "missing Jew" of his early poetry at the crossroads of Judaism and Tibetan Buddhism, Kamenetz is now taking on the mantle of the warrior. His new work militates powerfully for the splendor of the Jewish tradition, taking on without hesitation the cultural icons whose malign influence is far from spent. Jewish urgency and Jewish wisdom are combined here to stand poetically firm in another uncertain age." --Andrei Codrescu

 

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PRAISE FOR
TERRA INFIRMA

From The Los Angeles Times, May 15, 1999
A Walk Through the Ice Fields of a Son's Grief
By NICK OWCHAR, Times Staff Writer

Miriam Kamenetz was a pent-up, volatile woman. Swinging between highs and lows, she loved her family fiercely, making the brick walls of their Baltimore home vibrate with her outpourings of emotion. As her son, Rodger, describes her in "Terra Infirma," she might have come straight out of a modern version of Euripides--the Medea of the suburbs. And yet, when she died at 54 of colon cancer, she had shrunk into a little old lady, with bones so brittle that the bump of floor tiles under her wheelchair would send her into agony. All that rage and misspent aggression, the frustrations of a lifetime, were gone, sucked away, leaving her son with stirred up feelings and unanswered questions. "Terra Infirma" is Kamenetz's effort to understand the sound and fury of his mother's life and--hopefully--to enlighten readers along the way. "No one wants to read about death," Kamenetz says. "The subject matter repulses thought. . . . Yet the pattern of every life is instructive, and an ordinary death may be as tragic as 'Oedipus.' " Beautifully written, rich in the economy of phrasing and imagery that has marked Kamenetz's career as a poet, "Terra Infirma" is his substitute for the kaddish, that ancient prayer of mourning traditionally uttered by Jewish children when a parent dies. Instead, it is a walk through the ice fields of grief, in search (as the book's title implies) of firmer ground. In his previous books, "The Jew in the Lotus" and "Stalking Elijah," Kamenetz explored the mystical roots that Judaism shares with Tibetan Buddhism. He probed the ways that religions perceive God's ultimate reality. Yet the probing in "Terra Infirma" is more personal. Three questions hover over the book like a dark cloud: Why did Miriam forfeit her life by refusing a stronger treatment of her disease? What did love really mean to this complicated woman? And why did her son, whom she called her "sunshine boy," avoid her in her hour of need? Kamenetz finds answers in the past. Miriam hid the story of her life from her children--she pretended "that her parents never existed, that she herself never existed until she became our mother"--but she finally shared the truth on her deathbed. Kamenetz writes of his mother's magnificent, stubborn will; how it grew strong under the blows of her early life (imagine a hot iron hammered by a blacksmith), and how, fatally, it molded her to fight against all things, including the strident advice of her doctors. With Kamenetz's pen, family portraits are deftly sketched. There's Benjamin, his grandfather, a frustrated Talmud scholar-turned-barber; Benjamin's wife, Agnes, whom he beat and who was later institutionalized; Kamenetz's father, Irvin, a shopkeeper (meekly in the story's background) who regretted not studying medicine; and, with her own disappointments, Miriam. We learn that she lived with a foster family after Benjamin and Agnes' life fell apart. Her son broods on this, feeling that this might be why Miriam "had directed her energy toward one goal, keeping her family together." It was an energy that took shape in spurts of redecorating and housecleaning and the showers of anger and affection that rained on her children. Only when the specter of cancer loomed did Miriam start thinking of herself. She finished school and found a job, racing against her illness. In that time, mother and son had been drifting apart. Miriam's cancer was detected while Kamenetz studied in Mexico; not wanting to spoil his trip, she quietly underwent a lesser treatment that failed to prevent a later metastasis. Kamenetz, however, can't plead ignorance. Phone calls from home alluded to something wrong. "I turned my back on it. I didn't want to be pulled back to her," he confesses, thinking that had he been there, he might have broken her resistance, which felt it could beat any odds, and convinced her to make a better choice. This moment, one senses, is what the author has been working toward since the book's opening. His road to adulthood, Kamenetz recognizes, has had many painful turns. After her death, Miriam's spirit offers Kamenetz Zen-like consolation. The chaos of life, she reminds him in a dream, is "connected in the spirit, part of a single motion, like a wave through water." Is there something instructive in this, as Kamenetz hopes? There is, even though "Terra Infirma" is not a self-help book for the grieving. Few are chosen to face really great trials: to lead an army into battle or argue an important case before the Supreme Court. There are many whose struggles are hidden in ordinary lives. The greatest tribute a child can give, beyond the kaddish, a memorial or any other obsequies, is to find that heroism where it lay hidden, as Kamenetz does, and to say, "I understand." -- Nick Owchar is an assistant editor of Book Review. Copyright 1999 Los Angeles Times. All Rights Reserved.

From The New York Times, March 26, 1999
Terra Infirma: Penetrating the Mystery of a Mother's Silence

By RICHARD BERNSTEIN

Rodger Kamenetz's mother refused to speak to her children and husband in the last stages of the cancer that, after long and brutal suffering, killed her. As Kamenetz describes it in this hypnotic, cryptically lyrical memoir, her decision to remain mute had a mysterious and deeply disturbing power.

"Our game was to guess at the meaning of her silence," Kamenetz writes, "to weigh this nonspeech and feel its contours. Because she was dying, her silence had an artistic quality. We felt, as we often do before a tombstone, or a poem, that it must mean something more."

"Terra Infirma," Kamenetz's meditation on his mother, her stubborn willfulness and the inspiring yet destructive power of her love, has many reflective passages like that one. His book in this sense is no "Mommie Dearest," no mere expose of the harm a demanding and unreasonable parent can do. It is not a medical history about a patient and her family facing awful choices either, though such a history is included.

"Terra Infirma" is not a narrative in the standard sense of a chronological ordering of events. It is inclined to circle its main subject in a poetic meandering through the meaning and the mystery of a particular mother's character and the way it imprints itself on her son.

Kamenetz's slender volume is an impressively intelligent, maturely perceptive and learned meandering, and it has made for a strange and moving book.

Kamenetz, who teaches literature at Louisiana State University and has published three collections of poetry, gained a good deal of attention with his previous book, "The Jew in the Lotus." Inspired by a famous dialogue between the Dalai Lama and a group of Jewish religious leaders, the book examines the spiritual commonality of Buddhism and Judaism.

His new book, though far more personal, has much of the verbal flair and intellectual range of the earlier work even if Kamenetz's refusal to spare us dreadful scenes and searing memories also makes it at times painful to read.

Early on he reflects that no story could be "more sentimental than the death of a boy's mother." In fact, Kamenetz brings to his subject unsparing psychological insight and a quality of naturalistic observation that is the opposite of sentimental.

The first main subject that he explores is the enigma of his mother's past. Neither he nor his four brothers and sisters knew the basics of her biography, which, until one magical night when his mortally sick mother finally told her story, had remained a dark secret.

"All my life, I'd felt my mother's sadness as a song without lyrics," Kamenetz writes. "The sadness was all that her secrecy would allow; the lyrics -- the actual facts, were denied us." When, finally, the facts of his mother's life are revealed, they open a pungent and melancholy history, including the insanity of a mother, the brutality of a father and incidents of abandonment that chased each other from one generation to another.

These facts enable Kamenetz for the first time to perceive the deep roots of his mother's desperate possessiveness. They also lead him to the conclusion that his mother's story was "a tragedy, even a classical tragedy -- complete with tragic flaw and a heroine who did not know herself."

It is his mother's poverty of self-awareness that is the central element in Kamenetz's book, which is a near-obsessive effort to invest every detail of his life with the very quality that was missing in his mother's.

He writes a succinct, selective autobiography in which he describes his necessary but cruel repudiation of his mother as a way to establish his identity. In a chapter called "On Mourning," he provides a bittersweet, guilt-edged description of his struggle with the Jewish rituals surrounding the death of a parent.

He visits the old synagogue in East Baltimore where his grandfather used to pray and finds there an eccentric dying Jewish community. There is the man who wears two pairs of glasses, one over the other, and the rabbi who is also a steelworker and who punctuates his recitation of the prayers with an occasional, irrelevant exclamation: "BEH!"

Kamenetz makes a modest donation and asks in exchange that a special prayer be said for his mother, a way of compensating for his failure to fulfill the filial responsibility of uttering the Kaddish, the prayer for the dead.

The experience, as always for Kamenetz, is the occasion for a reflection, this one mingling sarcasm with a dose of reverence for the tradition: "We say in the Kaddish, 'God is Great,' for the sake of our dead, but to impose a limit on their influence. God is great, we pray -- and you are just dead."

Throughout, Kamenetz is tough-minded and tender. He is sensitive with a quirky, original intelligence and a dry, urbane, self-deprecatory wit. He strives eloquently and interestingly throughout his book to make connections between his mother's jagged character and the meaningful elements in his life.

Kamenetz's chapter on his mother's strange refusal to talk to her family in her last days is called "On the Meaning of No," and it ranges from his daughter's learning to talk to the inscription on Guillaume Apollinaire's tombstone in Paris ("My heart like an upside-down flame").

But Kamenetz always returns to his theme. It turns out that while his mother was not talking to him, she was discussing matters with her rabbi. "Why didn't my mother speak to us?" Kamenetz asks. He provides no clear answer, but does recall that she had tempers and tantrums so terrible that they made Kamenetz and his siblings tremble with fear.

Perhaps, he suggests, she "knew we were too fragile for anything she might have to say." When the rabbi asks Kamenetz and his siblings how he should describe their mother in his eulogy, Kamenetz's answer could be a inscription on her grave.

"Tell them," I said, "she was fierce."

From The Baltimore Sun, February 21, 1999
You can get into some of life's most useless arguments over terminology. But, pedants and prattlers aside, accept this truth: There are no more implacable enemies, no more distant opposites, than sentimentality and art. Simply, a Hallmark card is the antithesis of a Degas painting. "Kumbaya" is at the other end of the universe from Schubert's C Major quintet. Another simple truth: Unless you are a devoted matricidal maniac, it is impossible to write about your mother -- how she brought you up and how she died -- without sentimentality. Well, almost. That near-impossibility has been accomplished with astonishing artfulness in "Terra Infirma: A Memoir of My Mother's Life in Mine" by Rodger Kamenetz (Schoken/Random House, 116 pages, $18).

Kamenetz is a professor of literature at Louisiana State University. A native Baltimorean, born in 1950, he decided at 15 he was to be a poet, went away to Yale and then wandered the country and the world for a good many years. He has published five previous books, three of them collections of poetry. Kamenetz grew up in Baltimore's old Jewish subculture and ghetto-ish neighborhoods, which were rapidly dispersing when he was young. (They lived on Forest Hill Road.) Though his father was present, and provident, he plays almost no role in the book. The family revolved fiercely around his mother. And yet until very late in her life, Miriam Kamenetz was entirely secretive about her own family. Only in the year in which his maternal grandmother was dying did Rodger and his sisters and brother learn that she had spent the last 30 years of her life in Springfield State Hospital, an insane asylum.

Not unusually for second- and third-generation immigrant families, Gentile and Jewish alike, there were disappearances, reappearances, lost siblings, dark secrets, bitter conflicts, profound unfulfilled needs. But it was only as an adult, long removed from home, that Kamenetz understood the details. Jewishness infuses the family, the rituals, the typography. But the book's narrative is alien, somehow, to that Jewishness. It is elaborately explanatory, with no tendency, cause or need to be either apologetic or celebratory. The perspective from which Kamenetz explores the theme and role of Judaism ultimately is more anthropological than personal. When finally, in his 40s, he decides to try to write about his mother and their closeness -- really more their connection -- he is artful enough to know it cannot be a chronological record, because "at best history aggregates, only poetry unifies."

And from that point on Page 3 onward, the book becomes a unifying poem. Its first words are: "My mother died in the Church Home Hospice in Baltimore at the age of 54. Her last words were 'I love you.' The radio was playing 'Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head'."

From there on, Miriam Kamenetz is rarely not in the forefront of awareness. She was not a pleasant person: domineering, melodramatic, secretive. Yet somehow, almost magically, she is, on almost every page, moving, deeply affecting. She ruled: "With her approval I was everything. Without it, I was depressed, miserable, and desperate." And: "She had made a career of being a mother. She had given it inordinate energy. I was dazed by the extra attention like a body burnt by too much sun. I was embarrassed by her love, that deep embarrassment a child has when he feels himself turning into an object. Yet I was in a double bind. It would be churlish to refuse her praise. It was going the only place it could go, to my head."

Her unrelenting intensities had to do with her fear of becoming insane, as her mother had. As a child, she had been passed from one relative to another and then to a foster home. She dropped out of school at 16. With her children, she was often angry, screaming, a sort of serial perfectionist who let the house get filthy and then in a "cleaning frenzy" would go into tirades of ordered domesticity.

"My mother made us crazy and yet we were crazy about her," Kamenetz writes. "She was a spoiled, powerful child, and we felt protective of her." When she dominates his own wedding by turning up in a long white dress, he writes: "My mother's will had a ruinous intensity. Its strength made me weak." The book is powerful because of its amazing simplicity in dealing with immense emotional complexity. Not a word seems wasted. Not a phrase does not belong. It has exquisite, unforgiving discipline. Yet it wanders, it digresses, it darts and flashes here and there without mapping the diversions. In doing that, it weaves ever more tightly the story, the "legacy" as Kamenetz puts it finally: the mysterious being of a willful, difficult woman who was both impossible and irreplaceable, both hated and adored, but who finally in this magical book emerges in all the intricacy of a human being. She is very much alive as, finally, she dies. Miriam Kamenetz suffered painfully and terrifyingly from cancer for seven years before she died. Early on, Rodger Kamenetz asks, "What story is more sentimental than the death of a boy's mother?"

And yet, the story he tells never is. It is beautifully clean and clear, painful and lovely. "Dreaming begins in the womb," he writes. "The eyes of the fetus can be seen moving rapidly, and it is believed the brain matures through dreaming, that dreams provide stimulus in the darkness of the womb. Inside a mother each of us begins a dream."

So finally, of course, this is a book only tangentially about Kamenetz's mother. It is a book about growing up, about Kamenetz's own dream. It's about facing truths. Above all, it reveals something about courage and courage's elusiveness -- and shows that without courage, very little else, if anything, matters, or can work. -- Michael Pakenham

From New Orleans Times Picayune, January 24, 1999
by SUSAN LARSON Book editor

Poet Kathleen Fraser wrote, "One hears one's childhood and it is ancient." So adults repeat the patterns of the past, haunted, dreaming, often grieving, as childhood echoes reverberate through hearts and minds. In his powerful memoir of his mother's life, Terra Infirma, poet and teacher Rodger Kamenetz has crafted a sad and enduring tale of mothers and sons.

He begins with his mother's dying of cancer at age 54. Her last words were, "I love you." He writes, "Her dying words were a triumph. They hold me still in their grip." Haunted by dreams after her death, Kamenetz began to unravel the mysteries of his mother's life.

The granddaughter of Jewish immigrants, Miriam Kamenetz rarely spoke of her painful past. After her mother was committed to a mental institution following two failed marriages, Miriam was shuttled among relatives, abandoned by both parents, finally ending up in a foster home. Determined to control her own life, she developed "a fierce drive. It was all mind over matter, will over circumstance." When she made her successful marriage, she never discussed her past, never told her children about her own life until she was near death.

When she developed colon cancer, her pride played a part in her eventual death. Like any child of a willful, powerful parent, Kamenetz sought escape - both geographical and mental - and refuge in poetry. Later, when he has his own children, Kamenetz watches his young daughter learn the meaning of the world 'no': "She loved to say it. Do you want to eat? No. Do you want to get dressed? No. Do you want to go to sleep? No. (She doesn't even know how to say yes.) Do you want not to go to Charles's? No. We thought we had her trapped.

But No knows no metaphysical corners.. No is not a simple refusal. It is a place of creation. And so she practiced it by herself. Nobody had asked her any questions, but she still sang it, No, NO NOOO. She was building a world of it.

"All my life I too have been learning the meaning of the word No. Like Anya, I have built a world of it. I believe that my mother's strange secrecy, her silence, is what got me interested in poetry. For poetry is the meaning of the word No.

"Everything absent inspires poetry. Everything absent inspires new names. That is why poets court absence. The most beautiful rose, Mallarme wrote, is the rose absent from all bouquets."

Out of the absences in his mother's life, and out of her absence and presence in his own life, Rodger Kamenetz has created a beautiful grief-filled prose poem of love and loss. From terra infirma, that shakv ground, he leads his reader to higher ground. Like his mother, he can be fierce, even as he seeks to do the one thing she could not do far herself, recapture and understand her past.

From Tikkun, January 1999
Rodger Kamenetz, who has written for TIKKUN and is the author of The Jew in the Lotus and Stalking Elijah (both books that deal with the search for spirituality) has now written a powerful memoir about his mother and the dreams that she had for her son and herself, and the dreams that the son, the poet Kamenetz, had in return. As his mother is dying of cancer, Kamenetz begins his encounter with maturity and self-understanding as both an artist and man. In magical words, this book speaks about death and grief, about dreams and hopes and journeys undertaken, stalled, and then recaptured. Honest and moving, this beautifully written memoir shows us how a first-rate poet honors his mother, while at the same time is liberated to travel along his own separate path.

From Kirkus Reviews , November 1, 1998
Poet and author Kamenetz (The Jew in the Lotus, 1994) turns his gaze more powerfully inward than ever before in this slender, emotionally searing recollection of his mother's life and death. His mother died of cancer at 54, ravaged by a typically long and painful battle with the disease. Her son was with her when she died, along with her husband and one of her two twin daughters, and Kamenetz recounts the exact moment of her death in carefully observed detail and strikingly modulated tones. The rest of his essay maintains the mode of careful observation the book is most powerful whenever the author draws upon the resonance of objects to convey the pain of emotions but the tone veers, quite intentionally, between the detached coolness of the early pages, occasional dashes of humor, and a more openly agonizing self-assessment. Kamenetz's relationship with his mother was rocky, as she yo-yoed between a smothering affection and a fierce anger. As a result, mother and son seemed to spend much time circling each other warily, like two planets held in a painful orbit by mutually powerful gravitational fields. Using essayist Montaigne as a model, Kamenetz tells his own story in a discursive, digressive style, ranging from mordant and funny ruminations on marriage and the nuclear family to harrowing descriptions of illness. He writes like the poet he is, wonderfully drunk on language and constantly serving up fresh metaphors for familiar emotions and experiences. His love for his mother difficult, savage, sometimes lapsing into a paradoxically deep distaste emerges clearly. At times a frightening read, but an honest and thoughtful one. (Author tour) -- Copyright ©1998, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.

"I would be hard pressed to name anyone who has written as beautifully and profoundly about death and family as Rodger Kamenetz in this remarkable memoir. Terra Infirma is a sweet miracle of a book."

-- Robert Olen Butler, author of A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain

"I love this book. It is a powerful testament to the forces of life, will, and love. [T]his memoir will move the soul of anyone born of mother. It is highly rewarding and illuminating to read."

-- Robert A. Thurman, author of Inner Revolution

"Remembering his search for the separateness that would allow him to become an adult, Kamenetz writes fiercely and movingly. A classic story, beautifully told."

-- Rosellen Brown, author of Before and After

"One cannot be freed from a mother's possessive love merely by her death, without confronting one's own story. Kamenetz was willing to go through this process of liberation, and thanks to his honesty, courage, and skill as a writer, we have this absorbing and vivid account of his rescue from the silence that obscured his mother's past."

-- Alice Miller, author of The Drama of the Gifted Child

"Entirely under the spell of deep feeling, yet never relinquishing the irony of complex intelligence, this is one of the most beautiful books ever written about a mother and a son."

-- Philip Lopate, author of Portrait of My Body

 

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PRAISE FOR
STALKING ELIJAH:
ADVENTURES WITH TODAY’S JEWISH MYSTICAL MASTERS

WINNER OF THE NATIONAL JEWISH BOOK AWARD FOR JEWISH THOUGHT 1997

From The New York Times:
"Last year a friend in synagogue asked me if I'd read Rodger Kamenetz's ''Jew in the Lotus.'' ''He's very hard on your boss,'' the poet Allen Ginsberg, my friend, said. So I read Kamenetz's chronicle of a journey of Jews to Dharamsala, India. In all the perilous traveling, makeshift praying and exchange of religious wisdom between Buddhists and Jews, the remarkable dialogues were those among the Jewish teachers themselves.

There was one moment when I laughed out loud. Kamenetz describes Ginsberg and his teacher, Lama Gelek Rinpoche, seated next to each other at a sacred ceremony called the Kalachakra Initiation for World Peace at Madison Square Garden. During the chanting of a Tibetan text, Kamenetz heard Ginsberg chanting, ''Eenie, meenie, minie, mo,'' to his own and Rinpoche's amusement. When I asked Ginsberg about it, he laughed too and told me that the rhythm in Tibetan was identical to the old rhyme's exactly.

''Stalking Elijah'' grows naturally from ''The Jew in the Lotus'' as Kamenetz explores why he had to go to Dharamsala to find his own Jewish identity. Following Rabbi Zalmon Schachter-Shalomi's admonition to have the wisdom ''to change your life from where you are,'' he goes home to Baton Rouge, La., and joins a meditation group. Using Schachter-Shalomi's four-worlds mantra meditation -- ''I am holy. / All is clear. / You are loved. / It is perfect,'' four states of the emotional mind that correspond to worlds within the Kabbalistic teaching -- he carries his inquiry into ancient Jewish meditation practices across the country. He and his wife had suffered the loss of his infant child, and that pain is used as a gate to spiritual connections. Here Judaism complements the quiet mind of Buddhism and modern culture's new-age philosophies.

I found myself eager to follow him. On the way to the next important teacher, Rabbi Jonathan Omer-Man in Los Angeles, Kamenetz visits Rabbi Shefa Gold in Berkeley. Her story of being blocked from religious participation as a young woman is touching. Now she writes songs and leads a congregation; her voice is complete. Next, Rabbi Omer-Man extends the four worlds by lifting them out of the psychological and appreciating them only as parts of the divine. Thus Kamenetz takes in, learns, rejects, accepts and moves on. His grander scheme is to realize God in a direct fashion. There is a consequent suspense. Will God's finger lift this dry bean from the soup?

''When Jonathan first described the crying-out exercise,'' Kamenetz writes, ''I doubted I could do it. My skepticism abhorred it.'' As he drives on the San Bernardino Freeway, to his great surprise, his own words burst forth. The prayer further pushes his heart to overcome his self-conscious mind; he now recognizes the pathways of pain, pathways of laws, pathways of joy, pathways of silence and screaming on the road.

In Cambridge, Mass., Rabbi Arthur Green provides a provocative discussion of the relationship between the Orthodox and the unorthodox. As he and his wife sort Passover kitchen items, the clear path of Halakhah (law) and ''doing things by the book'' is contrasted with the ingenious spiritual intensity of the heterodox. ''There can't be a Judaism without some Halakhah,'' he says. ''One reason the Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist movements have not yet succeeded in creating a serious religious alternative to Orthodoxy is that we have not been able to articulate a Halakhah and say, 'Yes, we will live this. . . . This contains the real presence of God.' ''

''Stalking Elijah'' is valuable not only for Jews interested in the mystical tradition as practiced today but for Jews yearning to find a clearer expression of the divine in their lives. In fact, Judaism is not a prerequisite for learning from this book. Kamenetz's message is: If I can do it, so can you. Copyright 1998 The New York Times Company.

-- Bob Rosenthal, The New York Times,
February 15, 1998

''Stalking Elijah'' is valuable not only for Jews interested in the mystical tradition as practiced today but for Jews yearning to find a clearer expression of the divine in their lives. In fact, Judaism is not a prerequisite for learning from this book. Kamenetz's message is: If I can do it, so can you.

-- New York Times Book Review,
February 15, 1998

"The author’s answers do not come to him in the setting of a synagogue, but in the depths of his own heart. And he wisely allows his readers to penetrate those sacred chambers".

-- Judith Fein, Hadassah, October 1998.

"Rodger Kamenetz unveils the fascinating secret world of Jewish mysticism in its uniquely American idiom. Combining the crystalline wit of the poet and the guileless honesty of the seeker, Kamenetz renews our faith in God and the human heart."

-- Ellen Frankel, author of THE FIVE BOOKS OF MIRIAM

"When a poet like Kamenetz meets an emerging mystical community like the teachers of Jewish renewal, the text that emerges is something more than lyrical sociology: it teaches without lecturing, wrestles without conquering, and dances without posturing. So to read it is to learn with a light heart."

-- Rabbi Arthur Waskow, author of GODWRESTLING, GODWRESTLING ROUND 2 and DOWN-TO-EARTH JUDAISM

"Reb Rodger invites us on a journey to sit at the feet of the great Jewish spiritual teachers and sages of our generation. What we discover is profound learning, rich inspiration, and the way to touch our souls at their deepest and most holy places."

-- Rabbi Wayne Dosick, author of DANCING WITH GOD and LIVING JUDAISM

"Kamenetz blends the personal with the profound. He takes us on a journey through new spiritual territory and into the hearts and minds of those who are cultivating it. Illuminating and fun."

-- Daniel C. Matt, author of THE ESSENTIAL KABBALAH and GOD AND THE BIG BANG

"STALKING ELIJAH is filled with remarkable speculations, questions, and flights of mystic fancy. Beginning with hurt at its core, this book draws us along its adventurous path of discovery. Every reader who cares for the vagaries of the human spirit in our confused age will find this work unsettling, important, and never less than fascinating."

-- Rabbi David Wolpe, author of THE HEALER OF SHATTERED HEARTS and WHY BE JEWISH?

"Kamenetz gracefully moves in the narrow corridor between two great spiritual traditions, guiding seekers on a great voyage of the soul."

-- Rabbi Lawrence Kushner, author of INVISIBLE LINES OF CONNECTION and
HONEY FROM THE ROCK

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Praise for
THE JEW IN THE LOTUS

"IN autumn 1990, a Jewish Buddhist, a poet and eight distinguished Jews traveled to Dharamsala, India, for a four-day exchange of views -- a reciprocal teaching -- with the Dalai Lama, the titular head of Tibetan Buddhism, who has been living in exile for more than three decades. The Jewish Buddhist (or JUBU, as some say) was Marc Lieberman, a San Francisco ophthalmologist, who, with Moshe Waldoks, a scholar and editor, organized the meeting in Dharamsala as well as a preliminary discussion between the Dalai Lama and a Jewish contingent the year before in New Jersey. The poet and chronicler on the trip to Dharamsala was Dr. Lieberman's friend Rodger Kamenetz, and the eight distinguished Jews included Mr. Waldoks and representatives from all over the Jewish doctrinal map: Orthodox and Reconstructionist rabbis, rabbis active in Jewish renewal and professors of religious studies and modern Hebrew thought.

As implausible as that meeting in the Tibetan enclave in the northern Indian state of Himachal Pradesh sounds, the two sides -- Buddhist and Jewish -- were drawn together by what was at first an almost impalpable sense of correspondence between their traditions and by the real need for the group experiencing a new diaspora to learn something of the arts of survival from a very old diaspora.

In 1959, when the Dalai Lama left Tibet for his refuge in Dharamsala, the Chinese had already occupied his native land for nine years. In their continuing hold on Tibet, they have systematically destroyed its monasteries and temples, imprisoned and executed its people and encouraged the settlement there of ethnic Chinese. "All told," Mr. Kamenetz writes in "The Jew in the Lotus," "an estimated 1.2 million Tibetans have died as a result of the occupation." It has been the Dalai Lama's task to preserve his gentle religion not only against the predations of the Chinese Army but also against the anger of Tibetans living in exile, to prevent Tibetan resistance from becoming merely political and thereby losing the soul of his people's identity.

The Jews who traveled to Dharamsala, particularly those from the United States, were confronting a different side of the same problem. In America, the spirituality of Judaism has been depleted by the very adaptability of its people, by their increasing secularism. Mr. Kamenetz, who teaches English at Louisiana State University, speaks for many when he says: "The house of Judaism in North America has not been satisfactorily built -- it does not have a spiritual dimension for many Jews. Too many Jews are like me: our Jewishness has been an inchoate mixture of nostalgia, family feeling, group identification, a smattering of Hebrew, concern for Israel, and so forth." What he believes he witnessed in India and America was a spiritual exile, Jews becoming Buddhists in order to find something the religion of their birth had come to lack. For many readers of "The Jew in the Lotus," the surprise will not be making the acquaintance of the Dalai Lama or his adherents in the enclave called McLeod Ganj in the Himalayan foothills. The surprise will be making the acquaintance of Rabbis Zalman Schachter and Jonathan Omer-Man, who made presentations before the Dalai Lama in Dharamsala on the cabala and Jewish meditation.

"Our teachings have been kept secret even from Jews for a long time," Rabbi Schachter said. "So every day, when people get up and say their prayers, there is an exoteric order. But hidden inside the exoteric is the esoteric, the deep attunement, the deep way."

Nearly every major religion has developed a tension between its exoteric forms -- accessible to all practitioners -- and its esoteric secrets, which are restricted to a small band of initiates, if only to prevent the misuse of that esoterica. In a series of remarkable discussions, the Dalai Lama and these two learned, ebullient cabalists, Rabbis Schachter and Omer-Man, compare notes on the character of meditation, its structures, rhythms and traditions. To read these chapters is something like walking through a mythic garden, and they are cause for reflection on many subjects, not least of them the shape of human consciousness and what might be called a bending of tradition to such an extent that the richness of its resources becomes inaccessible. "The Jew in the Lotus" is the kind of book that seems, at first glance, to have been written for a carefully delimited audience: Jews, Buddhists and Jewish Buddhists. But that is an illusion. It is really a book for anyone who feels the narrowness of a wholly secular life or who wonders about the fate of esoteric spiritual traditions in a world that seems bent on destroying or vulgarizing them. It is a narrative about an extraordinary moment in history, of course, but it is also the chronicle of Rodger Kamenetz's discovery of what he says is a more nourishing Judaism, though anyone who reads "The Jew in the Lotus" as a spiritual autobiography will quickly find that Mr. Kamenetz is uncannily revealing about his religious past and cannily uncommitted about his religious future. Along the way the reader meets many notable people: the Dalai Lama, the profundity of whose presence Mr. Kamenetz finds hard to translate; Ram Dass, a Jewish Buddhist who was once named Richard Alpert; Richard Gere, who says in Dharamsala, "It's not a good idea to argue with poor people"; and Allen Ginsberg. Insights are here for the gathering. I have saved one that was given to Mr. Kamenetz, who is skeptical and, evidently, somewhat irascible, by a lama from Montreal: "You doubt everything else," the lama said. "Why not doubt anger?" Copyright 1997, The New York Times Company.

-- Verlyn Klinkenborg, The New York Times, July 24, 1994

"A highly entertaining personal account of one man's surprising journey into the mystical heart of Judaism."

-- Kirkus Review

"In a series of remarkable discussions, the Dalai Lama and these two learned, ebullient cabalists, Rabbis Schachter and Omer-Man, compare notes on the character of meditation, its structure, rhythms and traditions. To read these chapters is something like walking through a mythic garden. The Jew in the Lotus is the kind of book that seems at first glance, to have been written for a carefully delimited audience: Jews, Buddhists, and Jewish Buddhists. But that is an illusion. It is really a book for anyone who feels the narrowness of a wholly secular life or who wonders about the fate of esoteric spiritual traditions in a world that seems bent on destroying or vulgarizing them. It is a narrative about an extraordinary moment in history, of course, but it is also the chronicle of Rodger Kamenetz's discovery of what he says is a more nourishing Judaism..."

-- New York Times Book Review, July 24, 1994.

"Kamenetz defines and comments upon complex matters with skill, personableness, and a welcome dash of levity."

-- American Library Association Booklist

"Splendidly written from beginning to end, this is a book that might and should be read for the simple pleasure of watching an honest intellect confront its own image...The Jew in the Lotus is a book that should be read and discussed by those interested in the marvelous complexity and resilience of the human soul."

-- New Orleans Times-Picayune

"This is a truly fascinating book-- a challenging, candid, funny, poignant chapter in the education of a man who thought his religion had stopped speaking to his generation. Rodger Kamenetz is a perfect observer of the exemplary drama enacted in the sky-high kingdom of Dharamsala. An undaunted interpreter of complexities and contradictions, not only does he present a spectrum of Jews of profoundly different styles and Buddhists desperate to preserve the Tibetan way against painful odds, but he also conveys quite memorably the intricate inner lives of the Jewish Buddhists who cross forbidden lines, obliterate distinctions, insist they can be more than one thing at a time without loss. I found every page of The Jew in the Lotus enlightening and engrossing. It should be required reading for those of us who, like the author, have a stake in understanding who we are, whose history resonates with ours, and who we could become if we chose to."

-- ROSELLEN BROWN, novelist, author of Before and After, Civil Wars, and Tender Mercies.

"The Jew in the Lotus is a remarkable and important book, articulating a vision of that deep common ground of humanity that even apparently disparate cultures and religions share. And Rodger Kamenetz is a brilliantly elegant prose stylist, so his vision not only touches the mind but that spiritual part of us that is responsive solely to art."

-- Robert Olen Butler, Pulitzer prize winning novelist, author of A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain.

"This fascinating tale of two worlds, the Jewish and the Tibetan, is also a profound discussion of religion, exile, and survival in our time. Rodger Kamenetz has written a spiritual adventure story that brings to life the mystery of connections between seemingly different gods. But this is also a poetic manifesto calling for the creative re-thinking of religion and ritual."

-- Andrei Codrescu, poet and NPR commentator

"Rodger Kamenetz's The JEW IN THE LOTUS is ostensibly a fascinating account of a meeting in Dharamsala between Jewish religious leaders and the Dalai Lama. But the book is much more: it's the author's spiritual autobiography, in which he attempts to fuse within himself the two great mystical traditions of Buddhism and Judaism. Kamenetz is a fine writer, with a lovely sense of humor. Indeed, in his search for God, he's taking the path of joy and the reader is enriched by his quest."

-- Hugh Nissenson, author of The Tree of Life

"Kamenetz witnesses and reports on a remarkable and historic meeting, his discerning eyes, sensitive ears and deft poet's pen are at the service of the reader who wishes he had come along. He does not miss a nuance of the often tense drama, transmits the elation and the excitement of the journey and chronicles and comments as a representative of the intelligent reader. You will enjoy the multi-dimensional journey he takes you on."

-- Rabbi Zalman Schachter- Shalomi, spiritual leader of Jewish renewal. Author of Paradigm Shift.

"What a delight that a poet like Rodger Kamenetz got to listen while mystical rabbis met with practical lamas in India. He heard Buddhists learning from Jews the possible futures of Buddhism and Jews learning from Buddhists the possible futures of Judaism. Kamenetz heard the most vivid light shining in their voices; reading him, I could hear the Ultimate Truth saying, 'Sh'ma! Listen!'"

-- Arthur Waskow, Author of Seasons of Our Joy.

"With the publication of The Jew in the Lotus, the Tibetans will know one more key to the secret of the survival of the Jewish people. As mentioned in Rodger Kamenetz's remarkable account of the fascinating encounter between Tibetan Buddhists and Jewish rabbis and scholars, it is the ability of the Jewish people to remember. And their memory and the memory of the Tibetan people have been enriched by this lively and deeply felt book about how two cultures, separated by geography, are coming together in mutual respect and understanding."

-- Rinchen Darlo, Representative, Office of Tibet in U.S.

"In a dramatic journey to the East, leaders of two ancient traditions, both of which have known deep suffering and exile, meet to share their storehouses of faith, spiritual wisdom and practicality in topics ranging from angels to cultural survival. The result is a feast of truth sharing, self-examination of lineage, humor and good will."

-- Ram Dass

"I have taken the journey to Dharamsala many times, but never in the unique company described here. For some, the journey in this book will unite their past and present spiritual lives. For others, it will offer a vision of their future."

-- Sharon Salzberg, co-founder, Insight Meditation Society

"With clarity, humor, compassion, and unfailing honesty, Rodger Kamenetz's The Jew in the Lotus tells two stories: the outer story of the historic meeting in Dharamsala India between the Dalai Lama and eight rabbis and Jewish scholars, and the inner story of how Kamenetz explores and deepens his own understanding of Judaism through the "beginner's mind" of shared pilgrimage. Anyone with an interest in Judaism, Tibetan Buddhism, the question of exile, or the fundamental issues that underlie every genuine spiritual path will find much to ponder in this intriguing and engaging book."

-- Jane Hirshfield, editor of Women in Praise of the Sacred: 43 Centuries of Spiritual Poetry by Women

"As I read about the historic meeting with the Dalai Lama and the Jewish issues that were raised, I was deeply touched that two great traditions could commune and cross-fertilize each other in this way."

-- Rabbi David A. Cooper, author of Entering the Sacred Mountain.

"The Jew in the Lotus is a gripping book about a remarkable journey. Provocative and controversial, this book is sure to stimulate debate about vital questions in Jewish life."

-- Rabbi DAVID WOLPE, University of Judaism, author of Healer of Shattered Hearts.

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PRAISE FOR
STUCK: Poems Midlife

"These are grim and meaty poems, carefully crafted and tight. The experiences dealt with are those that break people, but the poems are far from broken. For a slender volume, it is remarkably substantial."

-- Marge Piercy, author of City of Darkness, City of Light: A novel.

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PRAISE FOR
THE MISSING JEW: NEW AND SELECTED POEMS

"Mr. Kamenetz has become one of the of the most formidable of Jewish voices of American poetry. The Missing Jew is the most significant book of American Jewish poetry to appear this year. .. Mr. Kamenetz recovers Jewishness as a field for discourse, not sentimentalized imagery. In direct and imaginative address, he puts the question of Jewishness under discussion with large parts of honesty and humor."

-- The Forward, December 11, 1992.

"Rodger Kamenetz’s poems whirl and shake on the page. He is the poet of the living history of unspeakable names and his book, The Missing Jew, sings with dark with the tales of tough family spirits."

-- Louise Erdrich, author of Love Medicine

"These are very exciting and original poems about a world that has been written about so many times. These poems are a secret and almost intimate meeting place of English and Hebrew."

-- Yehuda Amichai, Israel’s leading poet.

 

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