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PRAISE FOR
THE LOWERCASE
JEW
The Jew in the poet
Review in the Jerusalem Post by P. David
Hornik
In this book Rodger Kamenetz, the American Jewish poet best known for The
Jew in the Lotus - an account of Jewish- Buddhist dialogue - draws on his
wide range of Jewish knowledge and feelings to produce a set of poems that
are always interesting ...and sometimes stunningly powerful.
The book is divided into four sections, of which the first two, "Grandfather
Clause" and "Torah," are the most compelling. The poems in "Grandfather
Clause" are about the legacy of anti-Semitism, a sensitive but also
much-trodden subject that Kamenetz handles with tact and originality. The
deeply serious My Holocaust, a five-pages-long meditation about having a
vicarious, hence inherently problematic relation to the catastrophe, is
strikingly honest and convincing. In a lighter vein is The Lowercase Jew, in
which T. S. Eliot stands trial for the nasty anti- Semitism that mars his
verse. Eliot's main accuser is his own anti-Semitic creation Bleistein, whom
Kamenetz colorfully and comically projects as a gruff, earthy Chicagoan Jew
who assures Eliot that
It's punishment for you,
but also me.
I have to read these farkakta lines
you wrote about the Jews.
Later Bleistein grouses:
London and Jerusalem,
you called them unreal cities.
Maybe what made those cities unreal
was you never saw the people in them.
The lines maintain the standup-comic tone while making a serious point about
the coldness of this patrician poet. Nothing in The Lowercase Jew is meant
to detract from Eliot's greatness, but Bleistein's indignant ramblings
cleverly capture his shortcomings.
The second section, "Torah," offers poems that are intensive, midrashic
interactions with biblical texts...Genesis 1: 1 well evokes, in 16 lines,
the impenetrable mystery of that verse; The Broken Tablets poignantly
imagines the fate of Moses' first pair of tablets, their shards carried in
the Ark all the way to the Promised Land. But the highlights of the section
are Noah's Grapes, a bitterly powerful statement on aging and sexual
decline; and the extraordinary Naming the Angel, which memorably interprets
Jacob's night-long wrestle with the angel in terms of solitude and
alienation. After his protracted, frustrating encounter with the mysterious
being, Jacob wonders in anguish:
Maybe nothing moves down
the ladder but what we ask for, if in greed,
then greed, if in anger, then horned anger
gores our nights. Nothing walks down the ladder
but what we dream on the hard rock.
These lines well exemplify Kamenetz's genius for rendering voices and mental
states, his psychological insight and constant search for meaning.
Kamenetz is also a laudably courageous poet, not shrinking from themes like
the Holocaust and quintessential biblical texts, and the poem Proverbs (also
in the "Torah" section) is actually a set of 34 original proverbs, none of
them longer than one line, that are endlessly rich and provocative. My own
favorites are "Hope burns the hopeless" and "It was dark, so he closed his
eyes," but this is a prismatic group of maxims that send up different parts
of myself every time I stare at them.
The third section, "In
the House of Mourning," starts with two poems about a lost love, 13 and
Sparrow Land, that are not quite realized, seeming to shy away from the
painful subject matter without quite conveying the point. The central issue
of this section is Uncle Louis, or Why My Father Moved from Baltimore to
Florida, a three-pages-long confrontation with personal pain that at its
best achieves heights of vivid language and intensity...
In the last section, "Blessings After the Meal," Kamenetz shows a different
kind of courage, narrowing his focus to the culinary while still aiming at
big meanings. It works best in Rye, which manages to locate virtues of
equanimity and endurance in the taste, texture, and contents of a slice of
Jewish rye: for there is wisdom in a crust that holds the whole within its
ellipse, that restrains the moister whiteness like the mud shore of a lake
in the sun.
...at his best Kamenetz is a master at infusing seemingly plain words with
resonance and depth, with subtle textures and playful ironies, and he is
wonderfully open to a whole gamut of human emotions, from the sublime to the
soiled and abject. Versed in Jewish texts and alive to Jewish issues,
Kamenetz's message is one of quiet affirmation of his identity, of
appreciation for Jewish perseverance.
On the whole this is a very worthwhile book of verse - thoughtful, fresh,
and engaging.
"The poem on Ginsberg and Pound is magnificent; the
poem on T.S.E. is worth the price of admission; and "Uncle Louis;" and
"Rye;" and "Tours of Heaven." Read." -- Gerald Stern
"Rodger Kamenetz's poems whirl and shake on the page."
-- Louise Erdrich
"They
are "a secret and almost intimate meeting place of English and Hebrew."
-- Yehudah Amichai
"The
Lowercase Jew is a book dense with mourning, comedy routines, food, blue
tattoos. tribal history and the wheel of time, despair and prayer. It begins
with three amazing poems on T.S. Eliot's anti-Semitism, Allen Ginsberg's
forgiveness of Ezra Pound and an imaginary Holocaust Theme Park and ends
with an amazing poem on happiness, riffing on the Bible's first psalm." --Alicia
Ostriker
"Rodger
Kamenetz is on a spiritual pilgrimage that feels both urgent and timeless.
After finding the "missing Jew" of his early poetry at the crossroads of
Judaism and Tibetan Buddhism, Kamenetz is now taking on the mantle of the
warrior. His new work militates powerfully for the splendor of the Jewish
tradition, taking on without hesitation the cultural icons whose malign
influence is far from spent. Jewish urgency and Jewish wisdom are combined
here to stand poetically firm in another uncertain age."
--Andrei Codrescu

PRAISE FOR
TERRA INFIRMA
From The Los Angeles Times, May 15, 1999
A Walk Through the Ice Fields of a
Son's Grief
By NICK OWCHAR, Times Staff Writer
Miriam Kamenetz was a pent-up, volatile woman. Swinging between highs and lows, she loved
her family fiercely, making the brick walls of their Baltimore home vibrate with her
outpourings of emotion. As her son, Rodger, describes her in "Terra Infirma,"
she might have come straight out of a modern version of Euripides--the Medea of the
suburbs. And yet, when she died at 54 of colon cancer, she had shrunk into a little old
lady, with bones so brittle that the bump of floor tiles under her wheelchair would send
her into agony. All that rage and misspent aggression, the frustrations of a lifetime,
were gone, sucked away, leaving her son with stirred up feelings and unanswered questions.
"Terra Infirma" is Kamenetz's effort to understand the sound and fury of his
mother's life and--hopefully--to enlighten readers along the way. "No one wants to
read about death," Kamenetz says. "The subject matter repulses thought. . . .
Yet the pattern of every life is instructive, and an ordinary death may be as tragic as
'Oedipus.' " Beautifully written, rich in the economy of phrasing and imagery that
has marked Kamenetz's career as a poet, "Terra Infirma" is his substitute for
the kaddish, that ancient prayer of mourning traditionally uttered by Jewish children when
a parent dies. Instead, it is a walk through the ice fields of grief, in search (as the
book's title implies) of firmer ground. In his previous books, "The Jew in the
Lotus" and "Stalking Elijah," Kamenetz explored the mystical roots that
Judaism shares with Tibetan Buddhism. He probed the ways that religions perceive God's
ultimate reality. Yet the probing in "Terra Infirma" is more personal. Three
questions hover over the book like a dark cloud: Why did Miriam forfeit her life by
refusing a stronger treatment of her disease? What did love really mean to this
complicated woman? And why did her son, whom she called her "sunshine boy,"
avoid her in her hour of need? Kamenetz finds answers in the past. Miriam hid the story of
her life from her children--she pretended "that her parents never existed, that she
herself never existed until she became our mother"--but she finally shared the truth
on her deathbed. Kamenetz writes of his mother's magnificent, stubborn will; how it grew
strong under the blows of her early life (imagine a hot iron hammered by a blacksmith),
and how, fatally, it molded her to fight against all things, including the strident advice
of her doctors. With Kamenetz's pen, family portraits are deftly sketched. There's
Benjamin, his grandfather, a frustrated Talmud scholar-turned-barber; Benjamin's wife,
Agnes, whom he beat and who was later institutionalized; Kamenetz's father, Irvin, a
shopkeeper (meekly in the story's background) who regretted not studying medicine; and,
with her own disappointments, Miriam. We learn that she lived with a foster family after
Benjamin and Agnes' life fell apart. Her son broods on this, feeling that this might be
why Miriam "had directed her energy toward one goal, keeping her family
together." It was an energy that took shape in spurts of redecorating and
housecleaning and the showers of anger and affection that rained on her children. Only
when the specter of cancer loomed did Miriam start thinking of herself. She finished
school and found a job, racing against her illness. In that time, mother and son had been
drifting apart. Miriam's cancer was detected while Kamenetz studied in Mexico; not wanting
to spoil his trip, she quietly underwent a lesser treatment that failed to prevent a later
metastasis. Kamenetz, however, can't plead ignorance. Phone calls from home alluded to
something wrong. "I turned my back on it. I didn't want to be pulled back to
her," he confesses, thinking that had he been there, he might have broken her
resistance, which felt it could beat any odds, and convinced her to make a better choice.
This moment, one senses, is what the author has been working toward since the book's
opening. His road to adulthood, Kamenetz recognizes, has had many painful turns. After her
death, Miriam's spirit offers Kamenetz Zen-like consolation. The chaos of life, she
reminds him in a dream, is "connected in the spirit, part of a single motion, like a
wave through water." Is there something instructive in this, as Kamenetz hopes? There
is, even though "Terra Infirma" is not a self-help book for the grieving. Few
are chosen to face really great trials: to lead an army into battle or argue an important
case before the Supreme Court. There are many whose struggles are hidden in ordinary
lives. The greatest tribute a child can give, beyond the kaddish, a memorial or any other
obsequies, is to find that heroism where it lay hidden, as Kamenetz does, and to say,
"I understand." -- Nick Owchar is an assistant editor of Book Review.
Copyright 1999 Los Angeles Times. All Rights Reserved.
From The New York
Times, March 26, 1999
Terra Infirma: Penetrating the Mystery of
a Mother's Silence
By RICHARD BERNSTEIN
Rodger Kamenetz's mother refused to speak
to her children and husband in the last stages of the cancer that, after long and brutal
suffering, killed her. As Kamenetz describes it in this hypnotic, cryptically lyrical
memoir, her decision to remain mute had a mysterious and deeply disturbing power.
"Our game was to guess at the meaning
of her silence," Kamenetz writes, "to weigh this nonspeech and feel its
contours. Because she was dying, her silence had an artistic quality. We felt, as we often
do before a tombstone, or a poem, that it must mean something more."
"Terra Infirma," Kamenetz's
meditation on his mother, her stubborn willfulness and the inspiring yet destructive power
of her love, has many reflective passages like that one. His book in this sense is no
"Mommie Dearest," no mere expose of the harm a demanding and unreasonable parent
can do. It is not a medical history about a patient and her family facing awful choices
either, though such a history is included.
"Terra Infirma" is not a
narrative in the standard sense of a chronological ordering of events. It is inclined to
circle its main subject in a poetic meandering through the meaning and the mystery of a
particular mother's character and the way it imprints itself on her son.
Kamenetz's slender volume is an
impressively intelligent, maturely perceptive and learned meandering, and it has made for
a strange and moving book.
Kamenetz, who teaches literature at
Louisiana State University and has published three collections of poetry, gained a good
deal of attention with his previous book, "The Jew in the Lotus." Inspired by a
famous dialogue between the Dalai Lama and a group of Jewish religious leaders, the book
examines the spiritual commonality of Buddhism and Judaism.
His new book, though far more personal, has
much of the verbal flair and intellectual range of the earlier work even if Kamenetz's
refusal to spare us dreadful scenes and searing memories also makes it at times painful to
read.
Early on he reflects that no story could be
"more sentimental than the death of a boy's mother." In fact, Kamenetz brings to
his subject unsparing psychological insight and a quality of naturalistic observation that
is the opposite of sentimental.
The first main subject that he explores is
the enigma of his mother's past. Neither he nor his four brothers and sisters knew the
basics of her biography, which, until one magical night when his mortally sick mother
finally told her story, had remained a dark secret.
"All my life, I'd felt my mother's
sadness as a song without lyrics," Kamenetz writes. "The sadness was all that
her secrecy would allow; the lyrics -- the actual facts, were denied us." When,
finally, the facts of his mother's life are revealed, they open a pungent and melancholy
history, including the insanity of a mother, the brutality of a father and incidents of
abandonment that chased each other from one generation to another.
These facts enable Kamenetz for the first
time to perceive the deep roots of his mother's desperate possessiveness. They also lead
him to the conclusion that his mother's story was "a tragedy, even a classical
tragedy -- complete with tragic flaw and a heroine who did not know herself."
It is his mother's poverty of
self-awareness that is the central element in Kamenetz's book, which is a near-obsessive
effort to invest every detail of his life with the very quality that was missing in his
mother's.
He writes a succinct, selective
autobiography in which he describes his necessary but cruel repudiation of his mother as a
way to establish his identity. In a chapter called "On Mourning," he provides a
bittersweet, guilt-edged description of his struggle with the Jewish rituals surrounding
the death of a parent.
He visits the old synagogue in East
Baltimore where his grandfather used to pray and finds there an eccentric dying Jewish
community. There is the man who wears two pairs of glasses, one over the other, and the
rabbi who is also a steelworker and who punctuates his recitation of the prayers with an
occasional, irrelevant exclamation: "BEH!"
Kamenetz makes a modest donation and asks
in exchange that a special prayer be said for his mother, a way of compensating for his
failure to fulfill the filial responsibility of uttering the Kaddish, the prayer for the
dead.
The experience, as always for Kamenetz, is
the occasion for a reflection, this one mingling sarcasm with a dose of reverence for the
tradition: "We say in the Kaddish, 'God is Great,' for the sake of our dead, but to
impose a limit on their influence. God is great, we pray -- and you are just dead."
Throughout, Kamenetz is tough-minded and
tender. He is sensitive with a quirky, original intelligence and a dry, urbane,
self-deprecatory wit. He strives eloquently and interestingly throughout his book to make
connections between his mother's jagged character and the meaningful elements in his life.
Kamenetz's chapter on his mother's strange
refusal to talk to her family in her last days is called "On the Meaning of No,"
and it ranges from his daughter's learning to talk to the inscription on Guillaume
Apollinaire's tombstone in Paris ("My heart like an upside-down flame").
But Kamenetz always returns to his theme.
It turns out that while his mother was not talking to him, she was discussing matters with
her rabbi. "Why didn't my mother speak to us?" Kamenetz asks. He provides no
clear answer, but does recall that she had tempers and tantrums so terrible that they made
Kamenetz and his siblings tremble with fear.
Perhaps, he suggests, she "knew we
were too fragile for anything she might have to say." When the rabbi asks Kamenetz
and his siblings how he should describe their mother in his eulogy, Kamenetz's answer
could be a inscription on her grave.
"Tell them," I said,
"she was fierce."
From The Baltimore Sun,
February 21, 1999
You can get into some of life's most useless
arguments over terminology. But, pedants and prattlers aside, accept this truth: There are
no more implacable enemies, no more distant opposites, than sentimentality and art.
Simply, a Hallmark card is the antithesis of a Degas painting. "Kumbaya" is at
the other end of the universe from Schubert's C Major quintet. Another simple truth:
Unless you are a devoted matricidal maniac, it is impossible to write about your mother --
how she brought you up and how she died -- without sentimentality. Well, almost. That
near-impossibility has been accomplished with astonishing artfulness in "Terra
Infirma: A Memoir of My Mother's Life in Mine" by Rodger Kamenetz (Schoken/Random
House, 116 pages, $18).
Kamenetz is a professor of literature at
Louisiana State University. A native Baltimorean, born in 1950, he decided at 15 he was to
be a poet, went away to Yale and then wandered the country and the world for a good many
years. He has published five previous books, three of them collections of poetry. Kamenetz
grew up in Baltimore's old Jewish subculture and ghetto-ish neighborhoods, which were
rapidly dispersing when he was young. (They lived on Forest Hill Road.) Though his father
was present, and provident, he plays almost no role in the book. The family revolved
fiercely around his mother. And yet until very late in her life, Miriam Kamenetz was
entirely secretive about her own family. Only in the year in which his maternal
grandmother was dying did Rodger and his sisters and brother learn that she had spent the
last 30 years of her life in Springfield State Hospital, an insane asylum.
Not unusually for second- and
third-generation immigrant families, Gentile and Jewish alike, there were disappearances,
reappearances, lost siblings, dark secrets, bitter conflicts, profound unfulfilled needs.
But it was only as an adult, long removed from home, that Kamenetz understood the details.
Jewishness infuses the family, the rituals, the typography. But the book's narrative is
alien, somehow, to that Jewishness. It is elaborately explanatory, with no tendency, cause
or need to be either apologetic or celebratory. The perspective from which Kamenetz
explores the theme and role of Judaism ultimately is more anthropological than personal.
When finally, in his 40s, he decides to try to write about his mother and their closeness
-- really more their connection -- he is artful enough to know it cannot be a
chronological record, because "at best history aggregates, only poetry unifies."
And from that point on Page 3 onward, the
book becomes a unifying poem. Its first words are: "My mother died in the Church Home
Hospice in Baltimore at the age of 54. Her last words were 'I love you.' The radio was
playing 'Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head'."
From there on, Miriam Kamenetz is rarely
not in the forefront of awareness. She was not a pleasant person: domineering,
melodramatic, secretive. Yet somehow, almost magically, she is, on almost every page,
moving, deeply affecting. She ruled: "With her approval I was everything. Without it,
I was depressed, miserable, and desperate." And: "She had made a career of being
a mother. She had given it inordinate energy. I was dazed by the extra attention like a
body burnt by too much sun. I was embarrassed by her love, that deep embarrassment a child
has when he feels himself turning into an object. Yet I was in a double bind. It would be
churlish to refuse her praise. It was going the only place it could go, to my head."
Her unrelenting intensities had to do with
her fear of becoming insane, as her mother had. As a child, she had been passed from one
relative to another and then to a foster home. She dropped out of school at 16. With her
children, she was often angry, screaming, a sort of serial perfectionist who let the house
get filthy and then in a "cleaning frenzy" would go into tirades of ordered
domesticity.
"My mother made us crazy and yet we
were crazy about her," Kamenetz writes. "She was a spoiled, powerful child, and
we felt protective of her." When she dominates his own wedding by turning up in a
long white dress, he writes: "My mother's will had a ruinous intensity. Its strength
made me weak." The book is powerful because of its amazing simplicity in dealing with
immense emotional complexity. Not a word seems wasted. Not a phrase does not belong. It
has exquisite, unforgiving discipline. Yet it wanders, it digresses, it darts and flashes
here and there without mapping the diversions. In doing that, it weaves ever more tightly
the story, the "legacy" as Kamenetz puts it finally: the mysterious being of a
willful, difficult woman who was both impossible and irreplaceable, both hated and adored,
but who finally in this magical book emerges in all the intricacy of a human being. She is
very much alive as, finally, she dies. Miriam Kamenetz suffered painfully and terrifyingly
from cancer for seven years before she died. Early on, Rodger Kamenetz asks, "What
story is more sentimental than the death of a boy's mother?"
And yet, the story he tells never is. It is
beautifully clean and clear, painful and lovely. "Dreaming begins in the womb,"
he writes. "The eyes of the fetus can be seen moving rapidly, and it is believed the
brain matures through dreaming, that dreams provide stimulus in the darkness of the womb.
Inside a mother each of us begins a dream."
So finally, of course, this is a book only
tangentially about Kamenetz's mother. It is a book about growing up, about Kamenetz's own
dream. It's about facing truths. Above all, it reveals something about courage and
courage's elusiveness -- and shows that without courage, very little else, if anything,
matters, or can work. -- Michael Pakenham
From New Orleans Times Picayune,
January 24, 1999
by SUSAN LARSON Book editor
Poet Kathleen Fraser wrote, "One
hears one's childhood and it is ancient." So adults repeat the patterns of the past,
haunted, dreaming, often grieving, as childhood echoes reverberate through hearts and
minds. In his powerful memoir of his mother's life, Terra Infirma, poet and teacher Rodger
Kamenetz has crafted a sad and enduring tale of mothers and sons.
He begins with his mother's dying of
cancer at age 54. Her last words were, "I love you." He writes, "Her dying
words were a triumph. They hold me still in their grip." Haunted by dreams after her
death, Kamenetz began to unravel the mysteries of his mother's life.
The granddaughter of Jewish immigrants,
Miriam Kamenetz rarely spoke of her painful past. After her mother was committed to a
mental institution following two failed marriages, Miriam was
shuttled among relatives, abandoned by both parents, finally ending up in a foster home.
Determined to control her own life, she developed "a fierce drive. It was all mind
over matter, will over circumstance." When she made her successful marriage, she
never discussed her past, never told her children about her own life until she was near
death.
When she developed colon cancer, her
pride played a part in her eventual death. Like any child of a willful, powerful parent,
Kamenetz sought escape - both geographical and mental - and refuge in poetry. Later, when
he has his own children, Kamenetz watches his young daughter learn the meaning of the
world 'no': "She loved to say it. Do you want to eat? No. Do you want to get dressed?
No. Do you want to go to sleep? No. (She doesn't even know how to say yes.) Do you want
not to go to Charles's? No. We thought we had her trapped.
But No knows no metaphysical corners.. No
is not a simple refusal. It is a place of creation. And so she practiced it by herself.
Nobody had asked her any questions, but she still sang it, No, NO NOOO. She was building a
world of it.
"All my life I too have been
learning the meaning of the word No. Like Anya, I have built a world of it. I believe that
my mother's strange secrecy, her silence, is what got me interested in poetry. For poetry
is the meaning of the word No.
"Everything absent inspires poetry.
Everything absent inspires new names. That is why poets court absence. The most beautiful
rose, Mallarme wrote, is the rose absent from all bouquets."
Out of the absences in his mother's life,
and out of her absence and presence in his own life, Rodger Kamenetz has created a
beautiful grief-filled prose poem of love and loss. From terra infirma, that shakv ground,
he leads his reader to higher ground. Like his mother, he can be fierce, even as he seeks
to do the one thing she could not do far herself, recapture and understand her past.
From Tikkun, January
1999
Rodger Kamenetz, who has written for TIKKUN and is the author of The Jew in the
Lotus and Stalking Elijah (both books that deal with the search for spirituality) has now
written a powerful memoir about his mother and the dreams that she had for her son and
herself, and the dreams that the son, the poet Kamenetz, had in return. As his mother is
dying of cancer, Kamenetz begins his encounter with maturity and self-understanding as
both an artist and man. In magical words, this book speaks about death and grief, about
dreams and hopes and journeys undertaken, stalled, and then recaptured. Honest and moving,
this beautifully written memoir shows us how a first-rate poet honors his mother, while at
the same time is liberated to travel along his own separate path.
From Kirkus
Reviews , November 1, 1998
Poet and author Kamenetz (The Jew in the Lotus, 1994) turns his gaze more powerfully
inward than ever before in this slender, emotionally searing recollection of his mother's
life and death. His mother died of cancer at 54, ravaged by a typically long and painful
battle with the disease. Her son was with her when she died, along with her husband and
one of her two twin daughters, and Kamenetz recounts the exact moment of her death in
carefully observed detail and strikingly modulated tones. The rest of his essay maintains
the mode of careful observation the book is most powerful whenever the author draws upon
the resonance of objects to convey the pain of emotions but the tone veers, quite
intentionally, between the detached coolness of the early pages, occasional dashes of
humor, and a more openly agonizing self-assessment. Kamenetz's relationship with his
mother was rocky, as she yo-yoed between a smothering affection and a fierce anger. As a
result, mother and son seemed to spend much time circling each other warily, like two
planets held in a painful orbit by mutually powerful gravitational fields. Using essayist
Montaigne as a model, Kamenetz tells his own story in a discursive, digressive style,
ranging from mordant and funny ruminations on marriage and the nuclear family to harrowing
descriptions of illness. He writes like the poet he is, wonderfully drunk on language and
constantly serving up fresh metaphors for familiar emotions and experiences. His love for
his mother difficult, savage, sometimes lapsing into a paradoxically deep distaste emerges
clearly. At times a frightening read, but an honest and thoughtful one. (Author tour) --
Copyright ©1998, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.
"I would be hard pressed to
name anyone who has written as beautifully and profoundly about death and family as Rodger
Kamenetz in this remarkable memoir. Terra Infirma is a sweet miracle of a book."
-- Robert Olen
Butler, author of A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain
"I love this book. It is a powerful
testament to the forces of life, will, and love. [T]his memoir will move the soul of
anyone born of mother. It is highly rewarding and illuminating to read."
-- Robert A. Thurman, author of Inner
Revolution
"Remembering his search for the
separateness that would allow him to become an adult, Kamenetz writes fiercely and
movingly. A classic story, beautifully told."
-- Rosellen Brown, author of Before
and After
"One cannot be freed from a mother's
possessive love merely by her death, without confronting one's own story. Kamenetz was
willing to go through this process of liberation, and thanks to his honesty, courage, and
skill as a writer, we have this absorbing and vivid account of his rescue from the silence
that obscured his mother's past."
-- Alice Miller, author of The Drama
of the Gifted Child
"Entirely under the spell of deep
feeling, yet never relinquishing the irony of complex intelligence, this is one of the
most beautiful books ever written about a mother and a son."
-- Philip Lopate, author of Portrait
of My Body

PRAISE FOR
STALKING ELIJAH:
ADVENTURES WITH TODAYS JEWISH MYSTICAL MASTERS
WINNER OF THE NATIONAL JEWISH BOOK AWARD
FOR JEWISH THOUGHT 1997
From The New York Times:
"Last year a friend in synagogue asked me if I'd read Rodger Kamenetz's ''Jew
in the Lotus.'' ''He's very hard on your boss,'' the poet Allen Ginsberg, my friend, said.
So I read Kamenetz's chronicle of a journey of Jews to Dharamsala, India. In all the
perilous traveling, makeshift praying and exchange of religious wisdom between Buddhists
and Jews, the remarkable dialogues were those among the Jewish teachers themselves.
There was one moment when I laughed out
loud. Kamenetz describes Ginsberg and his teacher, Lama Gelek Rinpoche, seated next to
each other at a sacred ceremony called the Kalachakra Initiation for World Peace at
Madison Square Garden. During the chanting of a Tibetan text, Kamenetz heard Ginsberg
chanting, ''Eenie, meenie, minie, mo,'' to his own and Rinpoche's amusement. When I asked
Ginsberg about it, he laughed too and told me that the rhythm in Tibetan was identical to
the old rhyme's exactly.
''Stalking Elijah'' grows naturally from
''The Jew in the Lotus'' as Kamenetz explores why he had to go to Dharamsala to find his
own Jewish identity. Following Rabbi Zalmon Schachter-Shalomi's admonition to have the
wisdom ''to change your life from where you are,'' he goes home to Baton Rouge, La., and
joins a meditation group. Using Schachter-Shalomi's four-worlds mantra meditation -- ''I
am holy. / All is clear. / You are loved. / It is perfect,'' four states of the emotional
mind that correspond to worlds within the Kabbalistic teaching -- he carries his inquiry
into ancient Jewish meditation practices across the country. He and his wife had suffered
the loss of his infant child, and that pain is used as a gate to spiritual connections.
Here Judaism complements the quiet mind of Buddhism and modern culture's new-age
philosophies.
I found myself eager to follow him. On the
way to the next important teacher, Rabbi Jonathan Omer-Man in Los Angeles, Kamenetz visits
Rabbi Shefa Gold in Berkeley. Her story of being blocked from religious participation as a
young woman is touching. Now she writes songs and leads a congregation; her voice is
complete. Next, Rabbi Omer-Man extends the four worlds by lifting them out of the
psychological and appreciating them only as parts of the divine. Thus Kamenetz takes in,
learns, rejects, accepts and moves on. His grander scheme is to realize God in a direct
fashion. There is a consequent suspense. Will God's finger lift this dry bean from the
soup?
''When Jonathan first described the
crying-out exercise,'' Kamenetz writes, ''I doubted I could do it. My skepticism abhorred
it.'' As he drives on the San Bernardino Freeway, to his great surprise, his own words
burst forth. The prayer further pushes his heart to overcome his self-conscious mind; he
now recognizes the pathways of pain, pathways of laws, pathways of joy, pathways of
silence and screaming on the road.
In Cambridge, Mass., Rabbi Arthur Green
provides a provocative discussion of the relationship between the Orthodox and the
unorthodox. As he and his wife sort Passover kitchen items, the clear path of Halakhah
(law) and ''doing things by the book'' is contrasted with the ingenious spiritual
intensity of the heterodox. ''There can't be a Judaism without some Halakhah,'' he says.
''One reason the Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist movements have not yet succeeded
in creating a serious religious alternative to Orthodoxy is that we have not been able to
articulate a Halakhah and say, 'Yes, we will live this. . . . This contains the real
presence of God.' ''
''Stalking Elijah'' is valuable not only
for Jews interested in the mystical tradition as practiced today but for Jews yearning to
find a clearer expression of the divine in their lives. In fact, Judaism is not a
prerequisite for learning from this book. Kamenetz's message is: If I can do it, so can
you. Copyright 1998 The New York Times Company.
-- Bob Rosenthal, The New York Times,
February 15, 1998
''Stalking Elijah'' is valuable not only
for Jews interested in the mystical tradition as practiced today but for Jews yearning to
find a clearer expression of the divine in their lives. In fact, Judaism is not a
prerequisite for learning from this book. Kamenetz's message is: If I can do it, so can
you.
-- New York Times Book Review,
February 15, 1998
"The authors answers do not come
to him in the setting of a synagogue, but in the depths of his own heart. And he wisely
allows his readers to penetrate those sacred chambers".
-- Judith Fein, Hadassah, October
1998.
"Rodger Kamenetz unveils the
fascinating secret world of Jewish mysticism in its uniquely American idiom. Combining the
crystalline wit of the poet and the guileless honesty of the seeker, Kamenetz renews our
faith in God and the human heart."
-- Ellen Frankel, author of THE FIVE
BOOKS OF MIRIAM
"When a poet like Kamenetz meets an
emerging mystical community like the teachers of Jewish renewal, the text that emerges is
something more than lyrical sociology: it teaches without lecturing, wrestles without
conquering, and dances without posturing. So to read it is to learn with a light
heart."
-- Rabbi Arthur Waskow, author of GODWRESTLING,
GODWRESTLING ROUND 2 and DOWN-TO-EARTH JUDAISM
"Reb Rodger invites us on a journey to
sit at the feet of the great Jewish spiritual teachers and sages of our generation. What
we discover is profound learning, rich inspiration, and the way to touch our souls at
their deepest and most holy places."
-- Rabbi Wayne Dosick, author of DANCING
WITH GOD and LIVING JUDAISM
"Kamenetz blends the personal with the
profound. He takes us on a journey through new spiritual territory and into the hearts and
minds of those who are cultivating it. Illuminating and fun."
-- Daniel C. Matt, author of THE
ESSENTIAL KABBALAH and GOD AND THE BIG BANG
"STALKING ELIJAH is filled with
remarkable speculations, questions, and flights of mystic fancy. Beginning with hurt at
its core, this book draws us along its adventurous path of discovery. Every reader who
cares for the vagaries of the human spirit in our confused age will find this work
unsettling, important, and never less than fascinating."
-- Rabbi David Wolpe, author of THE
HEALER OF SHATTERED HEARTS and WHY BE JEWISH?
"Kamenetz gracefully moves in the
narrow corridor between two great spiritual traditions, guiding seekers on a great voyage
of the soul."
-- Rabbi Lawrence Kushner, author of INVISIBLE
LINES OF CONNECTION and
HONEY FROM THE ROCK

Praise for
THE JEW IN THE LOTUS
"IN autumn 1990, a Jewish Buddhist, a
poet and eight distinguished Jews traveled to Dharamsala, India, for a four-day exchange
of views -- a reciprocal teaching -- with the Dalai Lama, the titular head of Tibetan
Buddhism, who has been living in exile for more than three decades. The Jewish Buddhist
(or JUBU, as some say) was Marc Lieberman, a San Francisco ophthalmologist, who, with
Moshe Waldoks, a scholar and editor, organized the meeting in Dharamsala as well as a
preliminary discussion between the Dalai Lama and a Jewish contingent the year before in
New Jersey. The poet and chronicler on the trip to Dharamsala was Dr. Lieberman's friend
Rodger Kamenetz, and the eight distinguished Jews included Mr. Waldoks and representatives
from all over the Jewish doctrinal map: Orthodox and Reconstructionist rabbis, rabbis
active in Jewish renewal and professors of religious studies and modern Hebrew thought.
As implausible as that meeting in the
Tibetan enclave in the northern Indian state of Himachal Pradesh sounds, the two sides --
Buddhist and Jewish -- were drawn together by what was at first an almost impalpable sense
of correspondence between their traditions and by the real need for the group experiencing
a new diaspora to learn something of the arts of survival from a very old diaspora.
In 1959, when the Dalai Lama left Tibet for
his refuge in Dharamsala, the Chinese had already occupied his native land for nine years.
In their continuing hold on Tibet, they have systematically destroyed its monasteries and
temples, imprisoned and executed its people and encouraged the settlement there of ethnic
Chinese. "All told," Mr. Kamenetz writes in "The Jew in the Lotus,"
"an estimated 1.2 million Tibetans have died as a result of the occupation." It
has been the Dalai Lama's task to preserve his gentle religion not only against the
predations of the Chinese Army but also against the anger of Tibetans living in exile, to
prevent Tibetan resistance from becoming merely political and thereby losing the soul of
his people's identity.
The Jews who traveled to Dharamsala,
particularly those from the United States, were confronting a different side of the same
problem. In America, the spirituality of Judaism has been depleted by the very
adaptability of its people, by their increasing secularism. Mr. Kamenetz, who teaches
English at Louisiana State University, speaks for many when he says: "The house of
Judaism in North America has not been satisfactorily built -- it does not have a spiritual
dimension for many Jews. Too many Jews are like me: our Jewishness has been an inchoate
mixture of nostalgia, family feeling, group identification, a smattering of Hebrew,
concern for Israel, and so forth." What he believes he witnessed in India and America
was a spiritual exile, Jews becoming Buddhists in order to find something the religion of
their birth had come to lack. For many readers of "The Jew in the Lotus," the
surprise will not be making the acquaintance of the Dalai Lama or his adherents in the
enclave called McLeod Ganj in the Himalayan foothills. The surprise will be making the
acquaintance of Rabbis Zalman Schachter and Jonathan Omer-Man, who made presentations
before the Dalai Lama in Dharamsala on the cabala and Jewish meditation.
"Our teachings have been kept secret
even from Jews for a long time," Rabbi Schachter said. "So every day, when
people get up and say their prayers, there is an exoteric order. But hidden inside the
exoteric is the esoteric, the deep attunement, the deep way."
Nearly every major religion has developed a
tension between its exoteric forms -- accessible to all practitioners -- and its esoteric
secrets, which are restricted to a small band of initiates, if only to prevent the misuse
of that esoterica. In a series of remarkable discussions, the Dalai Lama and these two
learned, ebullient cabalists, Rabbis Schachter and Omer-Man, compare notes on the
character of meditation, its structures, rhythms and traditions. To read these chapters is
something like walking through a mythic garden, and they are cause for reflection on many
subjects, not least of them the shape of human consciousness and what might be called a
bending of tradition to such an extent that the richness of its resources becomes
inaccessible. "The Jew in the Lotus" is the kind of book that seems, at first
glance, to have been written for a carefully delimited audience: Jews, Buddhists and
Jewish Buddhists. But that is an illusion. It is really a book for anyone who feels the
narrowness of a wholly secular life or who wonders about the fate of esoteric spiritual
traditions in a world that seems bent on destroying or vulgarizing them. It is a narrative
about an extraordinary moment in history, of course, but it is also the chronicle of
Rodger Kamenetz's discovery of what he says is a more nourishing Judaism, though anyone
who reads "The Jew in the Lotus" as a spiritual autobiography will quickly find
that Mr. Kamenetz is uncannily revealing about his religious past and cannily uncommitted
about his religious future. Along the way the reader meets many notable people: the Dalai
Lama, the profundity of whose presence Mr. Kamenetz finds hard to translate; Ram Dass, a
Jewish Buddhist who was once named Richard Alpert; Richard Gere, who says in Dharamsala,
"It's not a good idea to argue with poor people"; and Allen Ginsberg. Insights
are here for the gathering. I have saved one that was given to Mr. Kamenetz, who is
skeptical and, evidently, somewhat irascible, by a lama from Montreal: "You doubt
everything else," the lama said. "Why not doubt anger?" Copyright 1997, The
New York Times Company.
-- Verlyn Klinkenborg, The New York
Times, July 24, 1994
"A highly entertaining personal
account of one man's surprising journey into the mystical heart of Judaism."
-- Kirkus Review
"In a series of remarkable
discussions, the Dalai Lama and these two learned, ebullient cabalists, Rabbis Schachter
and Omer-Man, compare notes on the character of meditation, its structure, rhythms and
traditions. To read these chapters is something like walking through a mythic garden. The
Jew in the Lotus is the kind of book that seems at first glance, to have been written
for a carefully delimited audience: Jews, Buddhists, and Jewish Buddhists. But that is an
illusion. It is really a book for anyone who feels the narrowness of a wholly secular life
or who wonders about the fate of esoteric spiritual traditions in a world that seems bent
on destroying or vulgarizing them. It is a narrative about an extraordinary moment in
history, of course, but it is also the chronicle of Rodger Kamenetz's discovery of what he
says is a more nourishing Judaism..."
-- New York Times Book Review,
July 24, 1994.
"Kamenetz defines and comments upon
complex matters with skill, personableness, and a welcome dash of levity."
-- American Library Association Booklist
"Splendidly written from beginning to
end, this is a book that might and should be read for the simple pleasure of watching an
honest intellect confront its own image...The Jew in the Lotus is a book that
should be read and discussed by those interested in the marvelous complexity and
resilience of the human soul."
-- New Orleans Times-Picayune
"This is a truly fascinating book-- a
challenging, candid, funny, poignant chapter in the education of a man who thought his
religion had stopped speaking to his generation. Rodger Kamenetz is a perfect observer of
the exemplary drama enacted in the sky-high kingdom of Dharamsala. An undaunted
interpreter of complexities and contradictions, not only does he present a spectrum of
Jews of profoundly different styles and Buddhists desperate to preserve the Tibetan way
against painful odds, but he also conveys quite memorably the intricate inner lives of the
Jewish Buddhists who cross forbidden lines, obliterate distinctions, insist they can be
more than one thing at a time without loss. I found every page of The Jew in the Lotus
enlightening and engrossing. It should be required reading for those of us who, like the
author, have a stake in understanding who we are, whose history resonates with ours, and
who we could become if we chose to."
-- ROSELLEN BROWN, novelist, author of
Before and After, Civil Wars, and Tender Mercies.
"The Jew in the Lotus is a
remarkable and important book, articulating a vision of that deep common ground of
humanity that even apparently disparate cultures and religions share. And Rodger Kamenetz
is a brilliantly elegant prose stylist, so his vision not only touches the mind but that
spiritual part of us that is responsive solely to art."
-- Robert Olen Butler, Pulitzer prize
winning novelist, author of A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain.
"This fascinating tale of two worlds,
the Jewish and the Tibetan, is also a profound discussion of religion, exile, and survival
in our time. Rodger Kamenetz has written a spiritual adventure story that brings to life
the mystery of connections between seemingly different gods. But this is also a poetic
manifesto calling for the creative re-thinking of religion and ritual."
-- Andrei Codrescu, poet and
NPR commentator
"Rodger Kamenetz's The JEW IN THE
LOTUS is ostensibly a fascinating account of a meeting in Dharamsala between Jewish
religious leaders and the Dalai Lama. But the book is much more: it's the author's
spiritual autobiography, in which he attempts to fuse within himself the two great
mystical traditions of Buddhism and Judaism. Kamenetz is a fine writer, with a lovely
sense of humor. Indeed, in his search for God, he's taking the path of joy and the reader
is enriched by his quest."
-- Hugh Nissenson, author of The Tree
of Life
"Kamenetz witnesses and reports on a
remarkable and historic meeting, his discerning eyes, sensitive ears and deft poet's pen
are at the service of the reader who wishes he had come along. He does not miss a nuance
of the often tense drama, transmits the elation and the excitement of the journey and
chronicles and comments as a representative of the intelligent reader. You will enjoy the
multi-dimensional journey he takes you on."
-- Rabbi Zalman Schachter- Shalomi,
spiritual leader of Jewish renewal. Author of Paradigm Shift.
"What a delight that a poet like
Rodger Kamenetz got to listen while mystical rabbis met with practical lamas in India. He
heard Buddhists learning from Jews the possible futures of Buddhism and Jews learning from
Buddhists the possible futures of Judaism. Kamenetz heard the most vivid light shining in
their voices; reading him, I could hear the Ultimate Truth saying, 'Sh'ma! Listen!'"
-- Arthur Waskow, Author of Seasons of
Our Joy.
"With the publication of The Jew
in the Lotus, the Tibetans will know one more key to the secret of the survival of
the Jewish people. As mentioned in Rodger Kamenetz's remarkable account of the fascinating
encounter between Tibetan Buddhists and Jewish rabbis and scholars, it is the ability of
the Jewish people to remember. And their memory and the memory of the Tibetan people have
been enriched by this lively and deeply felt book about how two cultures, separated by
geography, are coming together in mutual respect and understanding."
-- Rinchen Darlo, Representative, Office of
Tibet in U.S.
"In a dramatic journey to the East,
leaders of two ancient traditions, both of which have known deep suffering and exile, meet
to share their storehouses of faith, spiritual wisdom and practicality in topics ranging
from angels to cultural survival. The result is a feast of truth sharing, self-examination
of lineage, humor and good will."
-- Ram Dass
"I have taken the journey to
Dharamsala many times, but never in the unique company described here. For some, the
journey in this book will unite their past and present spiritual lives. For others, it
will offer a vision of their future."
-- Sharon Salzberg, co-founder, Insight
Meditation Society
"With clarity, humor, compassion, and
unfailing honesty, Rodger Kamenetz's The Jew in the Lotus tells two stories: the
outer story of the historic meeting in Dharamsala India between the Dalai Lama and eight
rabbis and Jewish scholars, and the inner story of how Kamenetz explores and deepens his
own understanding of Judaism through the "beginner's mind" of shared pilgrimage.
Anyone with an interest in Judaism, Tibetan Buddhism, the question of exile, or the
fundamental issues that underlie every genuine spiritual path will find much to ponder in
this intriguing and engaging book."
-- Jane Hirshfield, editor of Women in
Praise of the Sacred: 43 Centuries of Spiritual Poetry by Women
"As I read about the historic meeting
with the Dalai Lama and the Jewish issues that were raised, I was deeply touched that two
great traditions could commune and cross-fertilize each other in this way."
-- Rabbi David A. Cooper, author of Entering
the Sacred Mountain.
"The Jew in the Lotus is a
gripping book about a remarkable journey. Provocative and controversial, this book is sure
to stimulate debate about vital questions in Jewish life."
-- Rabbi DAVID WOLPE, University of
Judaism, author of Healer of Shattered Hearts.

PRAISE FOR
STUCK: Poems Midlife
"These are grim and meaty poems,
carefully crafted and tight. The experiences dealt with are those that break people, but
the poems are far from broken. For a slender volume, it is remarkably substantial."
-- Marge Piercy, author of City of
Darkness, City of Light: A novel.

PRAISE FOR
THE MISSING JEW: NEW AND SELECTED
POEMS
"Mr. Kamenetz has become one of the of
the most formidable of Jewish voices of American poetry. The Missing Jew is the most
significant book of American Jewish poetry to appear this year. .. Mr. Kamenetz recovers
Jewishness as a field for discourse, not sentimentalized imagery. In direct and
imaginative address, he puts the question of Jewishness under discussion with large parts
of honesty and humor."
-- The Forward, December 11, 1992.
"Rodger Kamenetzs poems whirl
and shake on the page. He is the poet of the living history of unspeakable names and his
book, The Missing Jew, sings with dark with the tales of tough family spirits."
-- Louise Erdrich, author of Love
Medicine
"These are very exciting and original
poems about a world that has been written about so many times. These poems are a secret
and almost intimate meeting place of English and Hebrew."
-- Yehuda Amichai, Israels leading
poet.
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